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Pornography and Missionaries: Why It's Usually Not an Addiction

Many missionaries struggle with this, whether in the field, after coming home early, or years after finishing. Jon Larsen, LMFT looks at what the research says about addiction and shame, how the cycle works, and how to get out of it.

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Scrupulosity in Missionaries: When Faith and OCD Get Tangled Together

Sometimes what looks like exceptional obedience is actually religious OCD. Jon Larsen, LMFT, breaks down what scrupulosity is, how it shows up differently in the field, after an early return, and after a completed mission, and how to find a settled peace that scrupulosity never allows.

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Post-Mission Depression Is Common. Here's What Helps.

The flatness, anxiety, or burnout that hits weeks after a mission ends isn't a spiritual failing. Jon Larsen, LMFT, breaks down a practical framework built on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for moving through it.

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Why Do Missionaries Come Home Early?

Most early returns come down to mental or physical health, not rule-breaking. Jon Larsen, LMFT breaks down the real, research-backed reasons, and why the shame doesn't match the numbers.

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Should Your Missionary Come Home Early?

One of the hardest calls a parent will make. Jon Larsen, LMFT, walks through how to tell the difference between normal growth-producing struggle and a genuine crisis, and what to do with that uncertainty.

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Coming Home From Your Mission Is Hard. Here's What Actually Helps.

The transition home after a mission is harder than anyone tells you. Jon Larsen, LMFT, walks through nine specific, research-backed struggles returned missionaries face, and exactly what helps with each one.

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Did Coming Home Early Ruin God's Plan for You?

If you've been asking this question, Jon Larsen, LMFT answers it directly, with research, scripture, and 25 years of clinical experience working with young adults and their families.

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Six Tips for Supporting Your Early Returned Missionary

When your missionary comes home early, the question is: what do you do next? Jon Larsen, LMFT and father of an early returned missionary, shares six practical strategies for parents navigating this difficult transition.

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What Is an Early Returned Missionary?

An early return from a mission is far more common than most LDS families realize — and far too misunderstood. This guide covers who early returned missionaries are, why they come home, what the research says, and how families can best support them through the transition.

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Returning Stronger Stories

Real early returned missionaries and their parents share their stories, what helped, what didn't, and the advice they'd give to someone going through it now. A few of our favorite conversations.

From Early-Returned Missionary to LDS Bishop, Returning Stronger Stories with Austin
Episode 9  ·  with Austin

From Early-Returned Missionary to LDS Bishop

Austin shares what happened when anxiety and panic hit in the MTC, how he learned to separate mental health from worthiness, and how he went from an early return to serving as a bishop.

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There's Work To Be Done Wherever We Go, Returning Stronger Stories with Juliet
Episode 3  ·  with Juliet

"There's Work To Be Done Wherever We Go"

Juliet shares what happened when her mission in Missouri ended after five months, and how "You do not owe anybody an explanation" became a lifeline.

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You Aren't a Failure; You're a Child of God, Returning Stronger Stories with Robert
Episode 12  ·  with Robert

"You Aren't a Failure; You're a Child of God"

Robert shares the story of coming home early with OCD that went unrecognized, and how he learned to hand his shame to the Savior instead of letting it define him.

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A Parent's Perspective: Your Life Is a Mission, Returning Stronger Stories with Mary Alice
Episode 11  ·  with Mary Alice

A Parent's Perspective: "Your Life Is a Mission"

Mary Alice Hatch, host of What Now Podcast, shares the parent side of an early return: facing church culture, shame, and fear, and choosing unconditional love over conditional expectations.

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Give Yourself Grace, Returning Stronger Stories with Cara
Episode 1  ·  with Cara

"Give Yourself Grace"

Cara shares the story of coming home early from her mission with an invisible illness, and how she rebuilt her relationship with God after anger, grief, and disappointment.

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Keep the Lord in Your Heart, Returning Stronger Stories with Remi
Episode 10  ·  with Remi

"Keep the Lord in Your Heart"

Remi shares her early return from the Fort Worth, Texas mission after a health crisis in the MTC, and how she turned disappointment into faith and found the miracles that still happened along the way.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Real questions from missionaries and their families answered honestly. If you don't see your question here, you can submit it and Jon or Brooklyn will answer it personally.

Frequently Asked Questions

What to expect when you come home early. How coaching works. What parents can do. What actually helps. Honest answers to the questions we hear most — from missionaries and families who are trying to figure out what comes next.

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About the Author

Jon Larsen, LMFT

Jon Larsen is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 25 years of experience working with adolescents, young adults and families navigating life's most difficult transitions. A returned missionary himself, having served in the Germany Düsseldorf Mission, Jon brings both professional expertise and personal understanding to the work of supporting returned missionaries and their families. He is the founder of Returning Stronger Coaching LLC, a virtual coaching and peer mentoring practice serving LDS families nationwide. He lives in Cedar City, Utah with his family. His daughter Brooklyn, who returned early from her mission and now serves as a peer mentor at Returning Stronger, is also a contributor and the inspiration behind this endeavor. Learn more about Jon at Returning Stronger.

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